When nerves are raw

When nerves are raw

Everyday life in the face of war

I am in Ukraine for the third time in a year. I see a country at its limit after almost four years of war. The resilience of the people is incredible, but the tension is palpable everywhere. Nerves are frayed, and this is more than understandable.

Winter without electricity, water, and heating, alarms and continuous bombings at every hour of the day and night: all of this is now an integral part of daily life. It is a life of permanent insecurity, a life at the mercy of threats.

A minute of silence and respect

Despite the chaos, there are moments of deep solidarity and reflection that keep the country united. Every morning at nine o’clock, a song of national resistance echoes through the streets of Ukraine. Public life comes to a standstill for a minute. The supermarket cashier stops scanning items, the man at the café sets his coffee cup down on the table, and the librarian at the book counter pauses. This minute is dedicated to the memory and respect of fallen soldiers and all those who are holding the line on the front. It is a moving daily ceremony that draws attention to the victims of the war.

Where prayers save lives

Being close to death profoundly changes one’s perspective on life and faith. A young man who was fighting on the front told me, ‘In the face of death, there are no atheists. Even men who are not believers, in that moment, plead: “Say a prayer for me too, because I don’t know how to pray.”‘ Another soldier recounted an ambush in which his unit fell: ‘We were under heavy enemy fire. Miraculously, the bullet lodged in my bulletproof vest. Many people all over the world are praying for us, and I know for certain that one of those prayers saved my life.’

Beatriz Lauenroth, press officer of Together for Europe